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I'm coming back with some more photos from our recent holiday to keep my mind on the continent for a bit longer. Among some great visited destinations, this humble allotment garden had been one of this year's highlights for the big and small (especially the small): relaxing in the shade, eating fruit off the bushes, napping in the gazebo, walking the dog, picking beans for dinner allowing time slowly swallowing the last days of our vacation. Nadia was one awesome country girl helping her grandma water the flowers and chasing butterflies equipped with butterfly net much bigger than her little self. First scrapped knee appeared a short while before heading home. The weather was perfect on those garden days - sunny and hot to the point of almost pinching the skin and I don't feel guilty to admit I allowed the sun to lick me so hard I had to live in Elizabeth Arden's Eight Hour Skin Cream to soothe mildly irritated cuticle. And when Nadia kept throwing her hands around my neck... boy, only a loving mother can bear a smile and ask for more. 

A day before going on a journey home my brother David came to visit us at the garden so I couldn't wish for more relaxing and laid back atmosphere. Not seeing him on a daily or weekly basis is rarely bearable so we talked our faces off, shared plans and discussed some recent events. Seeing him so close and natural had me really thinking hard of never speaking English again. Taking our belongings across the channel and let Nadia be the center of attention she has been over these two short weeks. Whatever we decide on it will take more than a day, a month, a year even. I also had a chance to visit my dad at his ranch exploding fabulously through rows of trees copsed by his own hands we were able to see to his undenied delight. The change of scenery always makes me excited - exchanging pavements for grass, concrete for wood and industrial smoke for a crisp air will never stop me from rolling down my car window and yelling with happiness. I think resin runs through my veins. I was surprised to see my dad without a beard he has worn all his life - now younger and lithe, fit for being a granddad. He lives on his own taking care of a huge parcel making it the best holiday spot. He greeted me with stating how slim I looked but I took it as a warm parental concern as I was a ten year old girl again who I will always be for him. There are still unexplained and unchewed issues between us but I have decided to focus on time left we both have to let all the hurt go. We had a home tour and Damian could find out who I have my habit of leaving cabinets' open doors inherited from - my dad leaves them open throughout the house to air the sheets and clothes. He then laughed at Damian's words when showing me how to close the entrance gate while I was half-listening, half-speaking to somebody else that just like every woman I do not listen when needed and ask for instructions later. I loved the fact he had Nadia's framed photograph placed on the table for everyone to see.

Couldn't wish for anything else to bring me more joy this summer. 
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Hello, England and hello to you! Safe and sound I'm released from plane safety belts and less confused because of time difference. It's nice to be back when you carry a handful of things reminding of what has just been a daily occurrence. Common things haven't brought us more happiness than lately. Just take a look at the photos of our old town and you will understand why after a week on the British soil we've been still adjusting to living as a threesome. I am hoping we can figure out a way to prolong the awareness of having all family so close we could visit them any day we wanted. One awesome holiday can do that to you. First time flying with a three year old equipped with books, dolls and Haribo bears wasn't that scary after all. Nadia was more curious than tired after gluing her tiny body to mine by throwing hands around my neck and being carried among luggage, endless feet and stairs. I loved that part best as having her so fragile and innocent dissolved in my arms gave me an enormous strength through the softness of her skin and trust she bestowed upon me throughout early part of the journey. It was neither plane nor taxi she spent hours in but my very own arms.

I am quite confident placing fe
et on foreign soils, slightly anxious but incredibly excited and in an awe of what lies ahead. This time I was welcomed by familiarity and predictability in the best of their forms. I opened my mouth to speak and it didn't surprise or turn heads. We greeted our two mums and Damian's father among people gradually unveiling their existence in Nadia's life. Eyes were on her and her interest revolved around others as well as material things: mostly hidden in cabinets or displayed on glass shelves above her hand level. Grandmas couldn't resist having her all to themselves so this left us no choice but to enjoy giggles and hand holding on the side or late evening outgoings.

The next day we visited more family, ate more delicious food (tons of raspberries picked up from the garden and cherry tomatoes still warm from the sun), took snaps of town I had to discover again. My need to pause the time was greeted with family disbelief (the fact carrying my camera with me everywhere I go has a tendency to take over every outing and soon became agreeable habit) and a huge interest of passers by when I directed lens onto the ugliest building or least amusing part in a street life as pigeons fighting over breadcrumbs. Before lunch we walked to dad's allotment garden through cemetery as the outside path was closed due to the enclosure serious work. In no time the cemetery will look presentable and will be monitored overnight (the only reason to maintain a close watch on such a great space we came up with is probably to be the first parish to ring the alarm in case of resurrection). Nadia then tried to befriend a dog (calling his name and running for her life or hiding in my arms when he responded was her way to entertain us as we watched her excitement grow), picked flowers, weeded strawberry beds with her grandma. Each time she wanted to go for a pee pee, she called the closest person to her and went behind the bushes (what a natural fertilizer). During those two weeks she was so good with going to the toilet that no accident was noted, nappies were super dry in the morning and she even called to go to the loo in the middle of the night. It's more than we were expecting. Coming home we talked about how the garden had expanded, I was robbed of a piece of mind all busy evening with family because of Damian's entertaining skills with his accordion sweet tunes (couldn't think of anything else but to slide into bed with this man) and was looking through more old toys and leftovers of our teenage years (books, birthday cards, forgotten gifts my mum would never throw away just as I would never part with cute Nadia's clothes when she was a baby).

From my mum's flat we headed to the town center to see a thing or two, Nadia was pushing our jackets in a stroller, a discovery of a nut flavour ice cream sent us straight to melting heaven and we bought several children's books. While having a cold treat in a restaurant I loved the idea of coming here with a friend after work or retail therapy for some refreshing drink or warm cappuccino overlooking the square with its multitude of strangers. Evening was dedicated to a family visit with a bottle of whiskey and prediction of an interesting start. And it was indeed, small price to pay for a cold welcome and a warm goodbye (and gave us an idea to purchase our own cappuccino coffee machine).
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Among things that await the two of us across the channel like scraped knees and lost squeaky property we'll naturally hold hands, listen curiously not taking eyes off each other, devote nights to more than cuddles. Time will allow almost teenage affection when all we'll be left to do is just stay very close. When you're a parent hands seem to be for other purposes only and their unclaimed movements seek fulfillment while away.

Until I'm back from the biggest adventure of this year, stay fabulously positive and tune in to check what I've been capable of in just two weeks. Above all - have fun, let your adrenaline rush and enjoy the summer Brits have been generously gifted with. Until when? Next week, I suppose...
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This is just a quick and quiet post (scheduled to go live at the weekend when I'll be working) as the rest of the household is snuggled down for the next eight to nine hours. Unlike me. So I'll get on with a few thoughts until my 15 minutes are up.

We're only 4 days away from my daughter's first real adventure (Disneyland was fun but this is huge) and many walks through our memory lane so all in all we are just as curious as her. We went to Poland in 2009 - three years, multitude of tantrums, one blog ago. Once we're there I wanna see everything and go everywhere, mostly where I have been before. It's all about bringing it all back but nothing's calculated as plans go a short way. With excitement there comes an anxiety and hesitant drawbacks - will we enjoy it the way we used to do, will I be portrayed as a respectful mother in the eyes of my family or will our parenting methods be fiercely discussed? You always fear the worst and hope for the best. Oh, and it'll be my muffin's first flight and security checks. We might just practice a little bit about going through security using a doorway as a metal detector and take off our shoes to walk through to avoid surprises. It'll be almost autumn when we come back and people, traffic, distractions will wrap us around again. I wish September was already here - I know I might be complaining about rain without a breather but I am a fall and spring lover at heart. Nothing compares to slightly chilly wind and sun that doesn't roast your face.

I'm off to my snoring duo, folks. You take care.
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This bloggy lacks updates as my father-in-law his hair. We've been pretty busy, lazy, sun-blind, rain-soaked, you name it and I'll check if we've been there. Our poor souls came to life on a day on the beach soaking up the UVA and UVB's rays. In my case they stopped just above the neckline and below the sleeve line, my friend allowed them to take her with both hands. I expressed my deep wish of happily replacing the sandy heat for a page turning while occupying cooling shade of a wild garden, she didn't mind resuming roasting alive. Some people are worth my crows feet so we stayed, ate chicken sandwich, sat by the fountain discussing upcoming birthday party.

P.S. When sun eventually makes its way onto the scene I'm happy for all the escapades we'll be making, fruit we'll invite to the table but after just a brief sit in the dazzling sun I get killer migraine, lose vision around the fifth minute and burn like mandolin in flames. I may exaggerate a bit but here I am, smooth, pale and all fine.

Last Friday we shopped bottoms of our purses off - started with little gifts for the family and went all the way ignoring anatomy of a man having two hands only to carry that stuff home. Banned from online shopping? Fine, I get to lay my hands on a cash machine. And believe me or not - I have performed that shopping spree twice within one week so I have enough shoes, roll-ons, nail polish until Doom's Day. And onto the party! Best food, best company to ever wish for. Happy birthday to one awesome girl turning 30 - count me in for every bash you're going to throw. I'll come invited or not. And yesterday you talked about our personal style and expressed your view we both dress in rather age adequate manner, but I have to make a confession: I'm still on a mission to wear shorts and wedges, button down a bit and enhance behind with a tighter number. Are you still going to go into town with me dressed like this?

Be sure and check back what we are up to milliseconds before flying to the mainland! And have a blast of a weekend! 
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Shopping for last minute travel essentials
You won't be seeing me for two weeks. I'm going on vacay!
I am trying to be patient. It isn't working. In a week's time we will struggle with heat, eat in apologizing amounts, count ants in the grass, catch up with three years worth of laughter and tears. But before the fascinating part, here comes the stressful one of parting with all the things that are not going to Poland with us. And man, I'm already sorry for most of them.  

Things to be packed:
- Animals not subject to veterinary checks: Kermit the Frog, Tatty Teddy, Eeyore
- Food allowed entry : Polo mints, one egg of Kinder Surprise, packet of cheesy Wotsits
- Polka dot briefs in two sizes respectively
- Short sleeve graphic top of each colour (small in size) and larger ones in narrower colour spectrum
- Three pairs of trousers (for before midday, at midday, after midday) per day
- Pretty shoes, sturdy shoes and any shoes for the reminder of stay when nobody cares for clothes any more
- Vibrating belly of a Winnie the Pooh toothbrush
- One cardigan, one hoodie, a hair band, two hundred and thirty hair elastics


Things to be seen/felt/memorized:
To eat small mushroom pizza and hot paprika casserole from a tiny pizzeria just two steps from my dad's flat, Italian ice cream that twists upwards and melts quicker than you lick, buy a train ticket to small neighbouring villages, visit Clock Museum, go to the cinema at the Cultural Centre when I sneaked in as a child and watched Robin Hood -Man in Tights- unsuspected, soak feet in a freezing cold river, go raspberries picking to the forest, eat potato soup with sausage, go to the market at the crack of dawn, make a phone call from a phone box at the post office, freshen up with lemonade drank by the countryside shop, walk barefoot on the tarmac, send postcards, go to the cemetery I used to live next to (how creepy), buy kids magazines I used to read as a child, go to the school playground...

Things to be brought back:
- Kids books in soft covers, audio books
- Camera stuffed with photos and short embarrassing videos
- Extra four pounds in side pocket area from excessive eating
- Plant cuttings to be watered more regularly than in the first week
- Home made berry wine for long winter evenings
- Well behaving child

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