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Once the wind calms down, clouds shift aside, getting a head-start in occupying the beach rarely happen. There are more crazy people out there who could call the shore their second home and we are not them. We still find ways to spot many incredible beaches though and we do take notes which ones will come to mind when we're done with cold and rain. But soon the surroundings will completely change for this little girl which is quite overwhelming to even think of - there will be forests, countryside roads, fruit gardens, towns full of stone, sandy paths and deep lakes - all to experience fondly within two weeks of summer holidays. I am on the other hand staying put with my little boy showing him bits of the seaside and bits of dry land. Our beloved slice of the world.

Summer holidays are important inspiration for the cold seasons ahead, even more important for Nadia to see her close family during this sweaty time. Every year I go to great lengths ensuring she has more opportunities to eat great food, speak only Polish, be as playful as grandmas will let her. I want the days to be slow and messy, I want to notice more freckles on her nose and no hesitation in running full force towards those who love her dearly. I want to see her watering plants only grandpa knows the names of, picking fresh produce and piling it by handfuls straight into her mouth, unwashed, sweet and delicious. I want her to spend too long smelling the rain and soil, walking distances between familiar places and those who are not, falling asleep so tired it delights. Every summer I want her to count days to boarding a plane, pack her backpack sometimes around May and choose the theme colour of summer dresses way before the websites announce the trends. I want to listen to her telling me what this time will be like even though every summer seems to be different from the last. From the moment she rises till the late hours of each spring - I want her to dream of Poland and carry those dreams with her way beyond the school gate. It's not negotiable, it's not a part of any discussion, the best thing I can possibly do for my children, for us as a family is to ensure that year after year they embrace the moments on a soil I know and cherish beyond comprehension. That they recognize their roots and faces of each and everyone I owe a lot more than just features, habits and fondest memories. And really Polish sun feels so good on our skin, trying to work through the dates and looking for cheap flights is just a formality - every year, after school closes for its annual break in educating. It's all adding up to creating memories and that's why it's so important.

►► A girl in her element, swimwear optional


►► ... I'm on the other hand personifying big sea creatures occupying rocks and quiet nooks of sorts


Have a great day, friends!
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Beach is unarguably the best place to walk for hours on end. It stretches beyond sight and if you're prepared for occasional blister or five, join the hike. I'm into my 40th, final week of pregnancy and although I've kept fairly busy throughout, this is the time I make no mistakes sitting on the couch for long. I may be a little weary today from all the walking but happy for the exciting news spreading out any minute now. I really wouldn't have it any other way - challenging my bump and introducing him to the active style I call my life. It may also encourage my little boy to greet us sooner than later so buzzing with energy that's still left I'm kicking my shoes off and head to the shore. It's been my go-to place whenever I felt I needed to think something over or get my emotions straight, even once I had plenty to do at home, taking a long beach walk made no harm in the long run. It calms me down, it does me good. Exhausts a little but never too much.

 Nadia loved running in front and leading the way, we followed her with attainable speed, sat near and watched her materialize ideas in sand. It was windy and bearably chilly, quite glorious to tell the truth. As I watched my girl being a happy child, so many thoughts rushed through my head - soon there will be a pushchair accompanying our every outing, learning how to avoid daily/town-assigned inconveniences like flights of stairs or high curbs, queues and so forth. Thankfully no bus rides for us anymore! Life with two, fast paced and wonderful. Have a great weekend friends! x
 





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Sun, good food and her last days of being an only child. I don't know this feeling when sharing is an option, I don't know life without company, my brother is only a year younger then me. When I look back I see mess I didn't necessarily make myself, I hear my name shouted loud in different tones, I recall mornings I woke up to a voice I will always recognize. And fights I was no stranger to almost daily. So when our every day will be so very different, I'm eager to witness Nadia transforming into somebody else, a big sister, companion and still a child that wants to play on her own, slow-paced, undisturbed for more than half the time. It will be a wonderful transition to witness yet one I'm not fully prepared for. Because what does one teach specifically about sharing, accepting and understanding after years of doing it occasionally and sometimes with a little more encouragement? I'm not so very worried about the sharing part too much though, Nadia is naturally kind and inclined to part with an object of interest almost willingly, what needs redefining is to maintain the space and pace that comes with it. Things will be removed, broken and crumpled. Things will disappear any hour of the day. She will not always be happy with it or accept it this way, she may act cool or totally opposite but I place trust in ourselves to figure it out as we go by.

We're about to introduce an element of the unknown to her. Well, all of us but mostly her. So far she's been totally into everything that comes with this change - talking about it and preparing for her brother's arrival gives her thrills. Her imagination bursts in ideas I could hardly think of the first time round, it feels so empowering knowing she's so in control. And maybe that's the answer to my worries and all? To leave her as much control over daily activities as reasonably possible so anything that shifts slightly aside be still fascinating and taste sweet without adding or taking too much away.

At times I want to freeze this time left to becoming a family of four, to savour her more and enjoy her presence to the silly brim. To shower her with attention not known to a child before. Yet I cannot wait to meet my little man, I refuse to postpone dreaming of those two turkeys meeting, getting to know each other and loving the way only siblings can.

Nadia is a sensitive girl with a big heart but sometimes she tries to cover her true feelings, heads to her bedroom and until I go after her to comfort, she'll be sat there overanalyzing her little worries. He may not understand it at first but walking after her trying to comfort her his way will always bring those two together. I am sure of that. I can picture Nadia smiling shyly then curling her feet on the bed to escape little hands trying to reach her, jumping away or helping him to the bed for some silly activity. It will be both awesome and overwhelming -- new life with a good deal of creative compromise and many opportunities to not take things too seriously. We are ready. x
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Dreaming of adventures and journeys far beyond our seaside
Standing there with every intention of satisfying each hungry belly
It's easy to be my friend - just hand me a smoothie, not even a straw required
Will we always have our walls sprinkled with hand made, home made wonders? As long as there are stories to tell, I'm not buying professional art.
Without needing a reason I plop down on the sofa with her any time we feel like it. And we do feel like it a lot.

Personally I'd add more plants to the current collection, for sentimental reasons (I don't want to watch them die) I'll stick to what's already thriving.
Games time is categorized here as a guilty pleasure but occasionally everyone has to show their loyalty to technology
Always staying on the curious, mischievous path.
I did not grow up loving plants but I came to love them since acquiring a decent sized windowsill and enough sunshine to live for 
Too much red shouldn't really work yet somehow it always does on her. Did I tell you Nadia's anything but ordinary?
A view that requires only a handful of crumbs and a calm heart to soak it in. A steaming cup of coffee would be great too!

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Spring breaks or any short breaks we can totally enjoy as a family during school holidays is a time we crave like a well planned and executed meal cheered with loud squeals and anticipation of sorts. We don't usually get enough of quality time as three with my weekend working schedule so trying our absolute best while the opportunity comes our way is the answer. And if weather cooperates the yummier. I tend to shed the outer layers far too quickly once the chirping of birds gets noticeable, I may still experience a bit of a goosebumps situation but will highly refuse the coat or the scarf once it's been left on hook. There's no compromise.

 This day was great. I am constantly reminded that less planned and more laid-back outing, the whole experience is worth the waiting. We went to the nearby playground and in between swings and rounds around the area, Nadia sat to rest and draw enthusiastically on the bench next to me trying to find the best position on the hard surface. There was lots of laughter, silly jokes, maybe a meltdown too but I don't really remember that. What I do remember is having all my favourite people in one place to have fun with and more. And a bag of salty chips for the afternoon of salty kisses.


 This hat was bought on sale, first that I found made in my size! I may be loving slouchy, one-size-fits-all blouses and sweaters but hats must be dedicated to the circumference of one's head, don't you agree? How hard is it to understand and force in the production line, retailers? Anyway, I'm happy to announce the miracle of being paired with one even if for another decade (I hope not). The seaside we finished our escapade at was windy but beautifully sunny and everybody and their dog was surely there. I can't wait to stroll down the beach more often this year, this time with a little hand in mine and a sweet milky lips brushing over the top of my shirt. I literally can't wait. x

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Today was a good day. Sunny to the blinding point, cold yet mild enough to feel relaxed and abundant in activities of sorts. We like to visit places for the first time however we absolutely don't mind checking in again and again. Bournemouth Oceanarium is such a nice place aimed at kids from different age groups with animal feeding times happening every half an hour to their hearts delight (both kids and animals). It was a great occasion to go and having Nadia as my sweet companion was a highlight of the trip. Walking past the big Amazonian fish was definitely one of the scariest experiences so I tried not to get her out of her comfort zone and we swooshed ahead to admire more pleasant species like puff fish or seahorses. There were sharks and turtles of course, there was not just one happy child too. Overall we had a great time and wouldn't mind taking advantage of the place pretty soon.

►► See what I'm talking about? Not so friendly looking fellas ;)

Have a lovely long Easter holiday, friends!
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